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24/05/2011 в 23:54 Published by Admin

 
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Online Dating is Not a Contest


Online dating is not a competition between competing males for the attention of a female. Grow up. Change the mind set from winning to searching. This isnt high school. You are all grown up and have been for quite some time, now. Your attitude is the most important asset you have. You need to like yourself and not concentrate of all of the things that arent Your own idea of the perfect guythe 1 the all women want.

What is that women want, you ask? Thats the age old question. Being of the female persuasion myself, I can tell you a few things women want and dont want.

Women want a man to be confidentNOT an arrogant jerk. Theres a big difference. You need to like yourself and not be self depreciating but you dont need to come across like you believe that you are a gift to them from God and have simply fallen from the sky. They dont want you to think that THEY simply fell from heaven and are some kind of perfect being, either. They cant live up to that expectation.

Women want a communicator. The effective silent type really isnt appealing at all. They think you probably dont have an original thought in the head and you probably havent heard a word they said, either or that you only dont care what they said or didnt even hear what they said. They want you to be interesting enough to want to know more about you and they want you to think that they are interesting enough to ask intelligent questions about what is important to them, too.

Women do NOT want to be a prize to be won. They dont want to be a trophy. They want to be the 1 woman that you want to be with.




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